It's generic. It's tailored for everyone. You're following that advice and guess what? So is everyone else.
In 1962, Malvina Reynolds wrote a song called Little Boxes which is about conformist attitudes. Here's a couple of my favorite lines:
And the people in the houses
All went to the university,
Where they were put in boxes
And they came out all the same
You don't want to come out the same, do you?